A Message From Storm - Spanking the Secretary

So, yes, this post is by Storm, but I, Windy, am typing it for him.  Yes, he knows how to type.  He just doesn't want to do so.  Nor did he want to sit down and write something for the blog, but he agreed to answer a question or two from me.......... and once those were asked....... he provided a lot of interesting material.  So, this is Storm..... and I am just The Secretary. (Doesn't she get spanked in that movie?  Why, yes, yes, she does!)

What is it like to be the spanker?

It's about intimacy -- you're naked and I'm not.  There is a visually kinky sexy aspect of seeing you bent over naked.  (He keeps saying naked).

It is about the act of you baring yourself to me, your flesh and your will, in submission of whatever I'm about to give you. (Gulp)

As I spank, I'm softening your emotions and your frustrations and your will.   Even though you're willingly submitting, I'm still imposing my dominance on you.  (I almost put my pencil and paper away right there and jumped him...... but I sacrificed that so I could share all this with you, so you're welcome.)
The touching with my hand over your body is reaffirming the sense that you're mine and nobody else's and so this is another act of physical intimacy that strengthens our bond and our relationship. 

It seems like you're really paying close attention to what you're doing back there.

I'm trying to spread out the swats, start soft and have an escalation, trying to minimize marks.  I'm trying to get a nice sized area evenly covered. (There is plenty of room).  I'm paying attention to the angle of the impact to make sure its surface area of paddle is flat against your skin -- so I don't hit with the tip of the paddle or an edge.

I prefer to be touching you with another part of my body.... my leg, hip, or hand..... I like keeping in constant contact with your body so that you feel my presence more than just the paddle.  This is newer to us, but once I did this I realized what I like about it.  It feels more intimate like an otk spanking. 

Can you talk about feelings you have about dominance?

My first thought was that it feels good to have your body available to me to do what feels good to me, which seems a bit selfish.  But as I think more about it, I am reminded that although I enjoy dominating you, you enjoy it as well.  Likewise, although you enjoy submitting to me, I enjoy it as well.  So I see my dominance and your submission as the parts we each contribute to our mutually beneficial relationship.  When we focus on meeting each other's needs, the result is we get our own needs met by the person we love the most.

Thanks for talking with me.  I learned some new things about your perspective and feelings.  And I especially enjoyed just spending time with you on top of the covers, this time.  ;)
Over (the covers), under, or bent over with sound effects, I always enjoy being with you Windy.  ;)