One Incredibly Dominant Email From Storm

I have to admit, I think this is one of the kinkiest and most dominant things Storm has ever said, required, demanded --  all of those words.  If  this isn't a hot example of what dominance could be in a relationship, weather it's d/s or ttwd or something else, then I don't know what one is.  I was longing for his dominance, but not knowing how to help him get there ..... It is in there because he comes out to boss  direct, instruct, and lead more often these days, but it is something he admits that he has to consciously work at.

Four months ago, before finding ttwd land, Storm and I set up private email accounts with some encrypted service and we used names other than our own, but things we wanted to call each other via email, so that we could send links of things back and forth and have some discussions via email because we struggle with privacy issues here in our home.  Storm set up these accounts ...... and no, neither of our names on those accounts are Storm or Windy.  They are much sexier.

Also, before I share this email, I also need to address that not all kinds of sexual intercourse are always available from one partner to the next.  Whether one partner has an injury of some sort and cannot spank or have sex, whether one of us has a hemorrhoid that makes certain activities undesirable, if one has a toothache so a blow job is out of the question, or any combination of those listed and of course many examples that I did not point out..........such as a  severe UTI.   So, I will tell you that one of these things was true in our household, and that it was not an injury, a toothache, or a hemorrhoid, so yeah, there it is. The UTI from HADES.   So I did not want to be touched.  And this wasn't a typical 3 to 5 days of discomfort, antibiotics and that orange pill and all is well.  No, no.  No, my friends.  And guess who had just discovered your ttwd blogs at this very same time?  So here I am reading all about how real ladies get spanked by their real husbands and how and why and the relationships work ...... and it was making me long to submit to Storm, but I couldn't do a dang thing about it.  I didn't know if my lady bits were burning from the UTI or out of frustration.  Well, why didn't you stop reading for the time being, Windy, you say.  Heck, no!  I've been looking for you gals for 10 years. I will take one for team UTI .   Some illnesses are constant and all we can really do is try to rest and wait until we feel better.  With chronic illnesses, I find I have good days and bad days or even a bad 23 hours but 1 good hour.  I try to tell myself that if I have had 1 good hour, I can have 2 good hours .... and build upon that even though there is a lot of push and pull with that.  So this off and on thing is what I often deal with in one manifestation or another.  So how do I practice submission when I am ill?  How is Storm supposed to  dominate me........... kindly?  Pfft.  Snooze.  Nope. I'd rather eat a bug.  And his big brother.

Then this arrived in my new email account from Storm:


I need an orgasm week. You will give it to me.

Here are my requirements for O Week:

1. You will service me daily for 7 consecutive days.

2. The week can begin on any day of the week.

3. I do not want you to tell me ahead of time which day it will begin. I will find out when it happens.

4. You do not need to feel pressure to begin immediately. I want you to begin when you feel well enough to begin. I am patient. I will wait for it. Do not apologize for not beginning yet.

5. To demonstrate your submission and desire to meet my needs, you will initiate each servicing either with words or actions. By that, I mean you can ask me or you can just start touching me.

6. Each day will begin when I return from getting breakfast and end the following morning when I leave to get breakfast. The servicing can fall anywhere in that 24-hour period. If necessary, you can wake me up in the middle of the night. As you know, I often feel more energized after a nap.

7. If you miss a day for any reason, the count will start back at zero and O Week will be extended for another 7 days. I will not remind you or be upset if a day doesn't work out. The middle of the night or early morning before I leave is always an option.

8. If you want an orgasm at any time during O Week, you will let me know. This will also demonstrate your submissive attitude to me. I always enjoy giving you orgasms. So if you want one, I want to give you one. But you must ask for it.

9. You will choose how you service me. I am just going to relax and enjoy while my beautiful submissive wife meets my sexual needs. You can use your mouth, hands, *****, *******, or lay on your stomach while I use your  *** and ****.

10. I may choose to stop the O Week before reaching 7 consecutive days. But if I do, I will make it clear to you that you can stop. If I do not say anything, assume we are going the full 7 days.

11.  During O Week, you are not required to go to bed at the same time I do. I want you to have flexibility to arrange your schedule to make it easier for you to service me.


Let me know if you have any questions. You can ask in person or email.

YIKES!!!  First let me say how he addressed my health in #4 and #5 was extremely important.  He was not setting me up for failure or trying to overwhelm me.  And so this actually was a "kind dominance" that I found quite palatable.  Line after line,  my eyes were bugging out of my head and my mouth was hanging open, but heck yeah, I kept reading!  Soon after, I went to find him in his office.  Me, "You wrote this?"  Yes, he did.  We haven't even done some of this stuff he's talking about.... EVER!  Me, "Are you serious about the (insert whatever you think it was here) ??  You would do that if I was okay with it?  Him, "I'll accept whatever you're offering."  Holy ball sacs and hello, Dominant Storm!!!

And not that it matters to you, but it matters to me, so I do want to stress that this was not a game.  Not to Storm and not to me.  Yes, it was sexual in nature, but I cannot even begin to describe the level of submissiveness that I felt when I read this and absorbed it and for however long it took me to complete the 7 days in a row.  I thought about it often during the day.... not just the sexual acts.......  he also spanked me for role affirmation in our ttwd relationship during this time, too, on a couple days where I felt physically up to it.  It made me want to sit on the floor by his feet while we watched a favorite television show every night.  It made me want to touch him outside of the bedroom.  It made me want to follow his lead.  I felt more settled despite the fact that I wasn't physically feeling very well.  I also will tell you that I sent him a couple of emails during this time reflecting upon what we had done together and how all of this was making me feel.  I cannot share them here because they are too intimate for my comfort level.

Here is how things happened next.    I initiated the first sexual act with Storm on the first night that he wrote this email.  We made it through several days...... and since we had never been an every night of the week kind of couple, I actually wondered if Storm would want to do this every single night.  So as one day turned into the next, I asked him if he thought he was going to make it all the way through (the man works many hours and has a lot of responsibilities and pressure just like your guys do/did).  And then I just added , "Maybe you should have included a foot rub as one of your options."  Not that it is sexual, it is not.  But it is kind and could be considered submissive, I think.  And plus, I am really good at it for some reason.  Well, he liked my idea so much that he said he was going to consider it an option even though he wasn't the one to think of it.  So after making it 5 days, on the 6th night, he asked me for a foot rub and I gave him a great one...... it was relaxing to him, comforting, and since it involved skin to skin contact initiated by me but requested by him, it fulfilled his requirements, he loved it, and so did I.  And then the 7th night Storm finished with a bang and so I took the first submissive challenge from my husband very seriously and I was honored to do so.  Maybe such an email does not technically fit into a ttwd relationship, I don't know.  I also don't care.  If my husband chooses to be more dominant in this way, then that comes from him and of course I am going to submit to his requests. My gosh, how could I not?  And that is my true story about one incredibly dominant email from Storm.