I'd like to know what you think about two particular words.
What two words?
I like to say them, but I don't like to hear them.
Hilarity ensues....... and since we're both still sick....... the hard laughter turns to all kinds of coughing over here. We go from 2 chubby people dying in bed to 2 chubby people dying laughing in bed.
When do YOU ever hear the words bend over? Certainly not from me!
I'm just saying it's never good when I hear them.
Okay seriously, what do you think of the words, 'Bend Over?'
"It's usually the start of something good."
Do you know that I like those two words?
I probably would say yes.
So I guess it's just something that gets me going then?
It is part of the whole dominance thing..........
Do you ever say it on purpose?
Yes, I have.
I remember the most recent time you said it. It was during my last spanking. You brought me up during the middle of it to talk to me and then you said, "Okay, I'm not done. Bend over." And heck yes, I obeyed.
Yes, I did do and say that.
Well, I really liked that. My heart gives a little jump..... it's getting hot in here! Here is where some mental stuff comes into play for me. For the rest of that spanking and for all the activities that happened while I was still in that position which includes anything he wants to do with me....... all of that to me is because he TOLD me to bend over ......... and so the rest of what is happening is because I am still obeying, still submitting....... whether it is from further spanking or pleasure at his hands.
Regarding the view of me from back there ......... why do you like to look at all that? Because of the female parts?
What's not to like? Why do you like ice cream? For a totally different reason, I guarantee you.
Visually, there's different directions you can go. I can smack it, spread it, penetrate it, rub it........ all sorts of good stuff.
One interesting thing about that whole thing down there is that it talks to me. She does? It communicates with me. Does it whistle? It gives me feedback. Now, I get where he is going. I can tell if your body is getting warmed up....... see if you're squirming at all, if you're wet ....if the blood is flowing and you're swollen ..........
What about the spanking part of what is going on back there?
Spanking ......... is another form of touching. It brings out feelings in you that you might not otherwise have. It is a way to make you feel me.
Why do you say that?
It is a way to keep your awareness, get your attention or keep your attention........
You have asked me during several spankings, "Do you feel me?" You've asked me afterwards, too, like later in the day..... "Do you feel me?" Why do you like that? Maybe that for you is like the words, "Bend over" for me.......??
I want to make sure you felt the energy I was giving to you. That what I was giving was being received.
That's for during ....... why do you ask me later/after?
That's part of the power exchange ....... He says with clinched teeth and a growl, "Do you feel me?" My answer is always, "Yes, Sir !"
P.S. Later on that evening, Storm officially came to bed and we were talking about this blog entry, but not for the record even though I am telling you now. I just wanted to know more and hear more about when he said, "Spanking brings out feelings in you that you might not otherwise have." I asked him what he thought those were. He claimed that he didn't know for sure since he is not in my head, but he sooooo is inside my head, ladies! And even though we are fighting the same dreaded lurgy as a friend just introduced me to that hilarious vocabulary earlier today, we did our best not to share more germs, but we shared everything else in body and in mind and with many many whispers in the dark of night.....with the promise of those words to be acted upon again soon. "I know you'll bend over for me whenever I tell you to........." My insides turned to liquid fire. My body wasn't bent over in submission, but he pulled me close to him, both of us now naked, and he drew my thigh up around his hip. The perfect position for the Storm to Whisper to the Wind...........