I have to admit that I am a fan of The Daily...... not the podcast, although it's a good one. For the past several months, I have been the recipient of a spanking that Storm has named The Daily.
As you know, there has been some weeping (mine) and gnashing of teeth (mine) and ear bleeding (Storm's) in our household the past six months as Storm and I face with determination some tough challenges with our TTWD in both theory and in practice.
Due to lack of privacy that cannot be helped, Storm smartly identified a very small window of opportunity each day where we knew we would have at least a very short time alone in the house. He announced that since we could not have private longer spankings that we could always plan, that he was going to try every morning to set me on the path to righteousness. And, no, he did not use those words, but it fits and it's funny given our strict religious backgrounds, so there you go.
He comes out of his office and says things like, "Okay, Babe, it's that time." It almost always takes place in the same spot in the kitchen because it is in the mornings and I am usually in there having coffee while I write. He has also come to me many times and said, "Buns out Baby," and "Sun's Out Buns Out," and variations on that theme. The first way this differs in atmosphere than my usual kind of spankings is that HE pulls down my pajama bottoms, leans me just barely over his hip while we're both standing, and then he spanks. (For our longer spankings in the bedroom, I am required to undress myself, be completely naked, bend over the bed, and await his attention to the matter at hand.)
When The Daily was brand new to us, he would spank and if it wasn't quite hard enough to get my attention, a time or two, I complained with a soft, "Booooo!" To which he laughed and said, "Booo??? I'll show you Boo!!!!" Then he'd give me more and harder, which means that I pretty much I got more than Boo all right...... I got an M added, as in BOOM BOOM BOOM !!
There is usually some kind of pep talk on how he would like my day to go -- to think positive, to remind me to practice very specific self-care, etc. He does sneak extra spanks in there for minor violations that I have accumulated within the past 24 hours. The Daily is a set number that started out lower but quickly doubled in number because someone is naughty so Storm felt more was needed to get his point across. It is a hard hand spanking now, so much so that sometimes afterwards, I complain, "OUCH!!!! I wasn't even in trouble this time." He feels sorry for me zero and I don't blame him.
Storm has become very consistent with The Daily. I admit that at first, I had a hard time in the mornings when I thought he was going to miss that window of opportunity, so I'd impatiently ask, unfortunately most of the time before the man even had a chance. I have gotten much better at waiting and zipping my mouth, and he has really followed through (sports spanking reference intended, Rosie!)
That Storm came up with this idea months ago completely on his own makes me feel good about the progression of our TTWD. It makes me feel cared for and it makes me feel like he is more in control, keeping his eye on me, my stress levels, and my behavior (my mouth!) toward him and he is holding me accountable. He is more observant and overall, I am much more careful with saying things that I know will upset him or be offensive to him. I have not shared until now about The Daily because I was giving it time to see if it was truly working for us and I am happy to report that it is. (These do not replace longer spankings in the evenings when we sometimes luckily get some time alone.) I have been tempted to spill the beans a couple of times during private talks with a TTWD friend what has been occurring in our home for months now, but I wanted to make sure it was going to stick before I said anything.
Taking a page from PK's book, I mostly mind blogged the above while I was taking a bath in our whirlpool tub late this evening. I had the jets on and leaned back in the tub while I let the Aussie 3 Minute Miracle Conditioner sit in my hair. I looked down at my breasts happily floating. Hmmm.... these just went from looking like 50-something-year-old-boobs that have definitely breast fed a mouth or two......to perkier 36 year old boobs, as I watched my titties rise from the dead. (Kind of like what Ella says blog land needs to do.) It was a miracle all right, but one that only lasted 3 minutes since it was then time to flip around to the other end of the tub and rinse my hair. My boobs were sad again. But, I am not sad because I have The Daily Spanking now to help brighten things up in the morning, including and especially my attitude and my rear end.
I love this! You are such a wonderful story teller. Laughed at your description of your boobs in the tub and always love Storm's one liners. "Sun's out, buns out" lol. How does he come up with these? Lol
Seriously though, this sounds like an awesome way to start the day. I'm glad you are both finding the dailies beneficial and that Storm is taking note and being consistent and that you feel cared for.
Hi, Roz! Thank you! You're so supportive of my writing, and I love knowing you laughed! I don't know how in the world Storm comes up with these one liners. He is generally a quiet guy...he listens very well to others, but can come up with hilarious statements on the fly all the time! Thanks, Roz! Hugs, WindyDelete
I get the value of dailies as a reminder of one’s role and the HoH’s expectations. It doesn’t work in our house though; not because I’m an angel but because Harry leaves for work at a ridiculously early hour and I am not a morning person. Take it from me, a spanking when almost comatose is a waste of time! Harry does impose a run of ‘nightlies’ from time to time and that definitely gets my attention. As a by-product, I sleep like a baby too.ReplyDelete
It’s really great that this is working for you and that Storm came up with the idea himself - it’s always comforting to know that our guys are truly onboard. I love his one-liners too...
I have no idea what sport ‘follow through’ comes from but I’ve used that phrase many times. And, hey, I watched the England Ladies World Cup match yesterday and enjoyed it, without caring a jot that I don’t know the offside rule! Later on, I watched Lewis Hamilton win the French Grand Prix on catch-up TV. It’s personal participation I suck at!
Another great post, Windy.
Hi, Rosie! I was thinking of you tonight as I was watching the Ladies' World Cup, and I want to tell you that I do NOT understand the offside rule either or why the referee seems to have so much power to just add whatever time she thinks at the end.....laughing. Whatever! I just know to be happy when my team scores!Delete
So your nightlies are the reverse of our dailies! I would prefer the night as well and have a couple of times been really out of it still in the morning when Storm was ready to spank. I asked if we could please wait until I could see straight! LOL!
Follow through is when you see a basketball player shoot the ball ....it looks like he/she is kind of waving goodbye with his/her wrist as he/she releases the ball. Mine was great back in the day!
Good for you watching those cars go around and around. I can't watch that stuff...too dizzy! Thanks for bringing more fun to this discussion! Hugs, Windy
I'm sure I've totally missed the point of this because I got caught on, "as I watched my titties rise from the dead". So glad I had already swallowed the coffee. Now I miss my whirlpool tub and spankings though. lolReplyDelete
Hi, Penelope! No worries, you got the most important parts! Laughing! Always have a mouth full of coffee when you read my posts and report all spit takes back here as soon as possible! Our tub is just a little bit bigger than standard with some jets... nothing fancy, but it is good for circulation and for floating boobs, obviously! HA! Glad you laughed! Hugs, WindyDelete
I shake my head and hold in my laughter at 5 AM, wondering it is how your mind can segue from daily spankings to floating boobs ... LNOL! (laughing not out loud) ... glad to hear your man Storm has found a new way into your submissive heart :) ... nj ... xxReplyDelete
Hi, NJ! I shake my head that you're awake at 5 am. UGH!!! I cannot explain what my silly brain comes up with sometimes, but I occasionally laugh to myself as I think/write. Good thing you gals seem to get my sense of humor! Hugs, WindyDelete
I'm very glad you are getting want you need. I'm happy for you that Storm understands what is needed and finds the opportunity to have at it! The time, the attention, the follow through - that's what we want.ReplyDelete
Hi, PK! Thank you. Yes, you said it just right...what we do want for sure! Hugs, WindyDelete
I never thought of titties rising from the dead. I would be real surprised if mine would float. Maybe in the Dead Sea. They say everything floats there because the salt content is so high.
It was wonderful to read how you and Storm have adapted to your precious alone time. TTWD is different for all of us, but if we want it bad enough, we will find a way to make it work. Totally laughed at "Sun's Out, Buns Out." We ought to start an anthology of the witty things our men say.
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Hi, Ella! I do use Epsom Salts in my bath water, so there is extra buoyancy going on in my tub and with my boobs! Try it!Delete
Adaption is a good term for what we're doing, yes. I wouldn't want it to be the only kind of spanking going on here, but it does seem to be helping.
We should start an anthology of our guys' wits! That would be quite a list! I am sure Storm would have you in stitches! Hugs, Windy
I have enjoyed your Storm's one liners in person. He is a funny guy. We, too, usually begin our day with a daily as Jack gets his point across concerning the things that need doing. We seem to have a thousand nicknames for these kind of spankings. All I know is that the message becomes clear and my mood is sunny. I managed not to spill any coffee doing my reading here this morning. Great post!
I know you have enjoyed Storm's one liners and you have been on the receiving end a time or two! Ha! I did love hearing you laugh at the really funny ones. Yes, your Jack knows how to get his point across loud and clear in the mornings, before bed, whenever he wants! It does help us with our moods for sure! I will try harder next time to cause a coffee spillage! Hugs, Windy
OMG! Seriously, I cannot have tea when I read your posts! I am happy to hear that you guys found a way in your busy, full house to connect with each other. Even if it is with a BOOM!ReplyDelete
Hi, Boo2! Hahaha with you and your mouthful of tea! Thanks for being happy for us and the new BOOM going on here! Hugs, WindyDelete
This sounds so great! I love that Storm is taking advantage of whatever time you have alone together, and those daily’s work wonders!ReplyDelete
We’ve also had those tricky times when attention is needed but we’re not alone. When I overhear my guy asking the kids if they want money to head out for ice cream I perk right up, knowing something is coming my way...good, bad, or otherwise!
Glad to hear things are progressing and you’re letting it all happen in good time. :)
Hi, Laurel! Laughing that "money for ice cream" is a cue to you that something is headed your way! Clever man! Here's to a little more alone time with our guys! Thanks for the encouragement and for the laugh! Hugs, WindyDelete
Windy, You are hysterical and an extremely good writer. I'm so glad you chose to share your stories here. The floating boobs back from the dead - totally get it. Oh, and Eric also "feels sorry for me zero". That is put so well. :)ReplyDelete
Hi, Amy! I'm glad you get a kick out of my writing! Thanks for the encouragement! You recognize those floating boobs, too, huh, when you're in your bubble bath? LOL And the "feels sorry for me zero" resonates with you and Eric after a spanking, too! HA! Too funny! Hugs, WindyDelete
I am glad the dailies are giving you what you need...sounds like a great way to use any scarce amount of private time :-) HugsReplyDelete
Hi, Terps! Scarce is a good way to say it and I may as well be positive about that little window of time rather than crabby! HA! Thanks! Hugs, WindyDelete
"Sun's Out Buns Out,"ReplyDelete
LMAO I love it!
I also love how he uses that time as a daily affirmation or to remind you of self care <3.